We have all had "a jealous moment" in the past and will probably have some others in the future. Write about it and share it with others. They might have had the same feeling as you.
Right now, I don't remind any moment I've been jealous. The only thing that I remember is something that happened one or two weeks ago, with my parents. For one year, I have to change my bed because it's very old and, in addition, it's bad for the back (say it to me, that I've got a terrible backache because of my mattress). So, I said to them for buying me a low double bed with the headboard with black and white flowers, or an another modern bed, because I have to buy a new one! One day, we went to buy a new trainers in Manresa and just next to the shoe store, there was a furniture shop with a beautiful bed (I like it so much!!!!!! And at the same time, he was calling me for taking him at home!!) Finally, the said to me that they will buy a new 2 meters long bed for them and they will give me theirs... I was so angryyyy!!!
Well, Anna, you should start saving money and buy a new bed as soon as you can otherwise ... you might suffer from terrible backaches ... or you could always insist and convince your parents about buying anew one for you.
Every week-end I stay with my best friend and often we go with my boyfriend. I see her only the week-ends because she lives in Barcelona during the week. At first she didn’t know my boyfriend, but then she has known him and they became good friends. One day, I’ve noticed they had a very good feeling, more than usually, she joked with him, she phoned him when she wanted to talk with me… So I’ve started to be jealous of her behaviour. Then, I’ve spoken with my boyfriend and he told me that he didn’t notice this change in her behaviour, but I wasn’t sure about it. Later, I’ve spoken with my friend and she told me she liked my boyfriend only as a friend and she never has fallen in love for him. As she is my best friend I believed it, and I felt badly for having distrusted her. On the other hand, I was happy because I haven’t missed my best friend and I have more confidence with my boyfriend.
--real story--
(If some time the same thing or similar has happened to you, please tell me!!)
Magda, I'll tell you what happened to me when I was 16. There was a boy who was interested in going out with my sister (she is a year and a half younger than me). As she was very young and besides the was not really recommendable, I decided to speak to him and protect my sister from him. Do you know what happened? He then went out with me. However, our relationship was a disaster.
Well, I was thinking today about the Eastern Holidays that are approaching, you know I work the hole week in the Alberich’s cake shop. Like every year, we need many people as shop assistant since there are many clients and we have to write down the orders, to answer the phone, to prepare every Easter chocolate figure, to go to search for the costumer’s cake, etc. It’s really stressful and we have to go up and downstairs, to be careful we don’t forget anything, and to stand some annoying comments… I’ve been working there for about two years and a half and last year the owners’ nieces and two other girls came to help us the four last days, when people come to get their Easter cake and figure, already ordered. What really irritated me was to observe that the nieces and another girl who was their friend, did much less than me, they could go to buy whatever and they were paid more!!! But of course, they where their nieces… Moreover, one of the experienced shop assistants was ordering me the whole time saying things like “You have to do it this way”, “Núria, bring some boxes, which are upstairs”, etc. I had been doing this last year this way, why do you tell me how I’ve to do it now??!! Was there nobody else to ask for things??!! I got so jealous and so, so, so angry… that finally I started to let fly some words to the boss angrily in order he could catch the idea but instead of that, the ancient owner was the one who asked me what was happening and I said “Nothing!!! Just some things!!!” I think he worried about that since he really knew what was going on and next time he asked me if I was still angry and why, and I said “No, I had argue with my mum that day”. However, my boss, didn’t say a word, and was as happy as always (despite all the work he had had to do), which made me feel even angrier that day. As a result, nothing changed, so it wasn’t useful, luckily, they didn’t disapprove me and in fact, I’m sure they all are unhappy of their nieces and their friend, but they can do nothing because it’s difficult to find people for these days, but anyway, I found it unfair!!!
Núria, you said you hadn't got my comment to your story.I must have done something wrong !! I'm sorry. Here it is! I think that your experience has made you stronger even though you might think it is unfair. These are the things which make us strong and help us face real life as it is. If everything was perfect we would become weaker and weaker !! However, stand up for your rights!!
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Right now, I don't remind any moment I've been jealous. The only thing that I remember is something that happened one or two weeks ago, with my parents.
For one year, I have to change my bed because it's very old and, in addition, it's bad for the back (say it to me, that I've got a terrible backache because of my mattress). So, I said to them for buying me a low double bed with the headboard with black and white flowers, or an another modern bed, because I have to buy a new one!
One day, we went to buy a new trainers in Manresa and just next to the shoe store, there was a furniture shop with a beautiful bed (I like it so much!!!!!! And at the same time, he was calling me for taking him at home!!)
Finally, the said to me that they will buy a new 2 meters long bed for them and they will give me theirs...
I was so angryyyy!!!
P.D. Sorry for my mistakes :P jejeje
Well, Anna, you should start saving money and buy a new bed as soon as you can otherwise ... you might suffer from terrible backaches ... or you could always insist and convince your parents about buying anew one for you.
Every week-end I stay with my best friend and often we go with my boyfriend. I see her only the week-ends because she lives in Barcelona during the week. At first she didn’t know my boyfriend, but then she has known him and they became good friends.
One day, I’ve noticed they had a very good feeling, more than usually, she joked with him, she phoned him when she wanted to talk with me…
So I’ve started to be jealous of her behaviour. Then, I’ve spoken with my boyfriend and he told me that he didn’t notice this change in her behaviour, but I wasn’t sure about it. Later, I’ve spoken with my friend and she told me she liked my boyfriend only as a friend and she never has fallen in love for him.
As she is my best friend I believed it, and I felt badly for having distrusted her. On the other hand, I was happy because I haven’t missed my best friend and I have more confidence with my boyfriend.
--real story--
(If some time the same thing or similar has happened to you, please tell me!!)
Thanks,
Magda, I'll tell you what happened to me when I was 16.
There was a boy who was interested in going out with my sister (she is a year and a half younger than me). As she was very young and besides the was not really recommendable, I decided to speak to him and protect my sister from him. Do you know what happened? He then went out with me. However, our relationship was a disaster.
Well, I was thinking today about the Eastern Holidays that are approaching, you know I work the hole week in the Alberich’s cake shop. Like every year, we need many people as shop assistant since there are many clients and we have to write down the orders, to answer the phone, to prepare every Easter chocolate figure, to go to search for the costumer’s cake, etc. It’s really stressful and we have to go up and downstairs, to be careful we don’t forget anything, and to stand some annoying comments…
I’ve been working there for about two years and a half and last year the owners’ nieces and two other girls came to help us the four last days, when people come to get their Easter cake and figure, already ordered. What really irritated me was to observe that the nieces and another girl who was their friend, did much less than me, they could go to buy whatever and they were paid more!!! But of course, they where their nieces… Moreover, one of the experienced shop assistants was ordering me the whole time saying things like “You have to do it this way”, “Núria, bring some boxes, which are upstairs”, etc. I had been doing this last year this way, why do you tell me how I’ve to do it now??!! Was there nobody else to ask for things??!!
I got so jealous and so, so, so angry… that finally I started to let fly some words to the boss angrily in order he could catch the idea but instead of that, the ancient owner was the one who asked me what was happening and I said “Nothing!!! Just some things!!!” I think he worried about that since he really knew what was going on and next time he asked me if I was still angry and why, and I said “No, I had argue with my mum that day”. However, my boss, didn’t say a word, and was as happy as always (despite all the work he had had to do), which made me feel even angrier that day.
As a result, nothing changed, so it wasn’t useful, luckily, they didn’t disapprove me and in fact, I’m sure they all are unhappy of their nieces and their friend, but they can do nothing because it’s difficult to find people for these days, but anyway, I found it unfair!!!
Núria, you said you hadn't got my comment to your story.I must have done something wrong !! I'm sorry. Here it is!
I think that your experience has made you stronger even though you might think it is unfair. These are the things which make us strong and help us face real life as it is. If everything was perfect we would become weaker and weaker !! However, stand up for your rights!!
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